Here are some great examples of phrases to use with children to help with transitions, independence, identifying and managing emotions, and behavioral regulation.  https://www.mother.ly/child/20-phrases-to-use-when-your-child-isnt-listening?fbclid=IwAR2_zR86PCNrhJsWh7aSAjuJWAgpX6pcYN3o46_n0dN588RchLpkXoRTGN4

This article explains why student behavior can be different at home than at school and offers options to help. https://childmind.org/article/kids-different-home-school/?fbclid=IwAR2blL2YIl7VNst2pCpicoqgTSZWFOB3hNYugIHwI-OZ18a5FuMPRVYXft4